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Tips to plan a Destination Wedding!

Updated: Feb 26, 2020

Typically those who choose a destination wedding have talked about it well before they were even engaged... Now that he's popped the question it's time to make it happen once for all.

I'm sure you have that perfect place in mind, whether it be a private island in the Maldives or romantic getaway in Italy. These are only a few of the most incredible places to host your wedding. After all, you vow forever and for always.

Before you get too excited and start booking yourself an incredible trip, there's a few things to consider when planning your Destination Wedding,

Here, I offer tips & tricks for how to plan a destination wedding — regardless of where in the world you get hitched.

1. Choose a meaningful location.

Keep in mind that your destination must have all of the resources you need easily accessible; that charming little town where you spent your childhood summers won’t work if it only has one hotel, that can’t accommodate all your guests.

2. Notify guests well in advance.

This is one of the most important destination wedding tips. It's important to give your nearest and dearest have plenty of time to calculate if they can afford the cost of traveling to your ceremony and reception.

3. Embrace the setting to save big.

Save on your budget by incorporating local blooms — think olive branches and grape leaves in Tuscany or exotic flowers and plants in the tropics. Serve local specialties at the reception, like conch fritters in the Bahamas or carnitas in Cabo, to cut catering costs.

4. Consider your guests.

Try to have everyone stay in a shared AirBnB for the ultimate experience, alternatively keeping your guests in the same hotel is affordable. Don’t set your date until you’re sure there’s room availability for everyone.

5. Hire a pro.

Make sure to find a planner or coordinator that specializes in destination weddings. This way, instead of spending hours on phone calls trying to overcome a language barrier or making executive decisions about flowers and ceremony site from miles away, you have an expert on hand to take care of it all for you. Or, if a planner isn’t in your budget, look for a resort with a strong on-site coordinator.

6. Visit in advance.

Ideally, you’d see your venue online or maybe once before booking and again three to four months before the wedding to finalize details. If a second trip’s not possible, arrive at least five days early to make those decisions and do a hair and makeup trial.

7. Pick your vendors in person.

In advance of your first site visit, set up meetings with the better-known florists and rental companies in your destination. But also ask for referrals from your venue on the ground; you might uncover local talent you didn’t know about.

8. Budget for vendors.

If you decide to bring specialists from home, expect to cover their travel and lodging costs; a clean, safe hotel within 30 minutes of your venue is a must. Negotiate these expenses up front so things don’t get out of control.

9. Stuff that suitcase.

I’ve yet to find a destination outside the continental U.S. that has the same quality and selection of rental linens. Shipping overseas is risky and expensive, so I always pack as much as possible into checked luggage.

10. Tailor your wedding dress to the destination.

Breathable fabrics work best in hot, humid locations. Lightweight lace in Mexico is stunning, as is an embellished ball gown at a villa in France.


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